My First Step

I deeply appreciate the people who are interested in the work that I do.  It can get lonely walking the path of an energy healer/spiritual teacher, and there have been times when I have felt like backing up and taking another road, but then someone will ask me a question or express an interest which lifts my spirits and motivates me to continue moving forward. 

Five years ago, I had no clue what energy healing even was.  I have been passionately interested in alternative medicine and natural health for many years.  I had already healed myself of a mental disorder and skin cancer with the help of a brilliant medical doctor and gifted naturopath using natural healing methods.  Those experiences left me feeling pretty feisty and powerfully in control of my own health care.

I became interested in the human energy system after reading Donna Eden’s book,  Energy Medicine.  I was fascinated by the eastern concept of disease: that it is simply due to a blockage somewhere in the energy system.  Even emotional and mental issues are viewed as discordant energy or blocked energy flow.  I thought to myself…how simple…restore energy flow and the body/mind will heal.

I was online looking for information one day when I clicked on the Quantum Touch® web page.  I had no idea what Quantum Touch® even was, but I immediately looked through the practitioner list and sure enough there was one in Oklahoma.  I signed up for a workshop and brought my husband along.  He would do anything for a weekend get-away with his favorite girl:) 

Quantum Touch® is a method of hands on healing.  It is achieved by using breathing, focus, intention, and visualization to direct energy.  I would recommend anyone who is interested to go to their website and read about it.

We were in a class with about 7 or 8 other people.  The afternoon of the first day we split up into pairs.  Of course, my husband was my practice partner.  We’d been instructed in how to look at the body and check for structural misalignment.  One of the really neat things about Quantum Touch® is you can actually align structure….yep…move bones!

I looked at my husband, and his head was not on straight, and neither were his hips.  He was experiencing a lot of lower back pain.  His left hip was much higher than the other which caused him to wear the heel of his boot at an angle, and made it so he could not point his left foot straight.  He had been to our chiropractor who had been unable to adjust or manipulate the hip, so he’d put him in a pair of custom shoe inserts to assist him to walk level. 

Workshops are fun places to learn new things.  Since my husband was so uneven, everyone wanted to watch as I tried out my skills.  I started with his head.  I simply placed my hands where the instructor told me to, and I breathed the way she told me to.  And…sure enough…his head straightened up. 

I then moved to his hips.  He was really crooked.  One hip was at least an inch and a half higher than the other.  I knelt behind him so my eyes could be level with his hips; I put a hand on each hip, and again breathed the way I’d been taught.

After about four breaths, I saw the left hip move down… a lot!  I turned to my classmates and said, “Wow!  Did you guys see that?”  Not only had they seen it, my husband felt it.  He told me that it felt as if his hip had melted into place.  He said as it moved, it felt as if someone tugged on his jeans. 

Had that experience occurred with any other person, I probably would have come home and not really believed what I’d seen.  It is easy to dismiss miracles…but this one happened to my husband, a no-nonsense man who has never bought into stories of fairies and unicorns.   If it is a miracle to him…you can bet your last dollar…it is miracle! 

From that day forward, he could point his toe straight, he experienced less low back pain, and every pair of boots he has owned since have worn evenly. 

From that day forward, I was hooked on energy healing.  There are many methods and modalities of energy healing.  I am trained in, practice and teach a few.    I have witnessed and have experienced many miracles since then, but the memory of that first one stays etched in my mind.    

Beginning in December, Laurie Frans and I are giving ½ day workshops on a variety of different energy healing techniques. We will cover a range of different energy medicine and energy psychology techniques.  We are calling them First Saturday Classes as they are scheduled for the first Saturday of each month.  They will last from 1:00-5:00pm at our offices located 1100 E Main, Suite 300, Weatherford, OK, and the cost for the classes is $40.00 per person. The class for December is on Self-Care.  We will be offering some tips and teaching techniques to help you get through the busy holiday season with less stress.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to actually experience the Peace and Joy of the season?    

Interested persons can message me here through Facebook or call or text me at 580-774-5891.  Feel free to share this story of my first step with anyone you feel could benefit. 
 

Blessings for a beautiful Thanksgiving,

Tonjia

Energy Practice Opening Mid-August

Today, I am pleased to announce the opening of a new energy-based healing practice in Weatherford, OK.  

Laurie Frans and I are combining our skills and knowledge to promote energy medicine and energy psychology in Western Oklahoma.

The science of quantum physics shows us everything in our world and beyond is made up of energy.  At its finest level, all matter is energy.   Your body is energy, and your being extends beyond your body as a field of energy knows as the aura, or bio-field.  You have energy pathways running through your body known as meridians, and their job is to supply life force energy to the cells, organs and tissues of your body.    Your energetic anatomy includes spinning vortices of energy that are positioned in line from the base of your spine to the top of your head.  Known as chakras, these spinning wheels of energy act as energy stations, and their energies affect your organ function.  Chakras record important or emotional events of your life and they regulate aspects of your personality. 

As an energetic being, you affect and are affected by the energies around you in a back and forth communication with your environment.   Have you ever been working at computer for a while and suddenly feel tired and drained?  Have you ever walked into a room with other people and just known they were angry or upset?  These are examples energetic communication with your environment or other people. 

Energy medicine and energy psychology work within the human energy system to affect positive change in health and well-being of individuals.  These methods work on the premise that every issue people experience exists as a specific frequency in the energy system of that person.   Energy interventions are safe, and can facilitate dramatic results in relatively short time periods.   

Our clients will be able to choose from several different energy methods, and different programs designed for the improvement of health and well-being.  We will utilize advanced diagnostic and healing technologies, and offer a range of educational opportunities.  A few of our offerings are as follows:

Energy Matrix Clearing System©

Rapid Eye Technology

Thought Field Therapy

Emotional Freedom Technique

Mindfulness

New Skills for Living Classes

Dialectic Behavior Therapy

A Course in Weight Loss

ST-8 Lymphatic and Tissue Detoxification System

Minds-Eye Voyager

Q2 Energy Spa Foot Bath

Animal Energy Healing Sessions

Reiki Treatments and Workshops

Energy Psychology Workshops and Trainings

We expect to be moved in and ready to accept clients by mid-August.  If you’d like more information or want to book an appointment, give me a call.  My number is 580.774.5891 and can e-mail me at tonjiamallory@yahoo.com.  Laurie can be reached at  580.595.1041 or e-mail at laurie@lauriefrans.com.   

The Heart Project

                                                  
                    Introductory Coherence Technique

The following exercise to sends  love and compassion to people who are experiencing stress.

1. Breathe and calm yourself in whatever ways you choose. Ground yourself—imagine roots growing out the bottoms of your feet into the ground.

2. Choose something you appreciate-a person, pet, nature, anything you appreciate, could be a positive situation occurring in your life, and radiate the feeling of appreciation to them for about 2 minutes.

This helps open the heart more and increases our effectiveness when you start sending care to the people or situation in need.

3. Now evoke the genuine feelings of compassion and care for the planet.

4. Breathe the feelings of compassion and care going out from our heart.

You may imagine the compassion and care flowing out the way an ocean wave flows toward a beach, or as a beam of light radiating outward, or radiate it out with the rhythm of your breath.  Find what suits you.

5. Radiate the genuine feelings of compassion and care to the people closest to you-family, friends, and co-workers-and remember to radiate compassion to yourself too.

6. See yourself, along with others participating in this process of healing and facilitating peace.

Observe any changes in yourself, such as attitudes and perceptions that have shifted, and also how those changes may be affecting your relationships and life experiences. And any love and care we give helps to effect a positive change, even when the change is unseen.

*The Heart Project and Introductory Coherence Technique come from Global Coherence Initative. http://www.glcoherence.org/ 



How Deep is your Denial

My friend, Laurie, and I have been talking a lot lately about Denial. In a recent Energy Matrix Clearing System training, we gave each other a session designed to assist in diffusing the vibration of denial from our energetic systems. Sounds woo woo, doesn't it? It in fact, is very scientific when you consider that all we really are is energy.

Our issues exist in our energy systems as a frequency or a vibration. This is why is can be so darn difficult to resolve our issues. We can understand them completely on a cognitive level, but if the energy still exists in our system, we will continue to have the same issues over and over. The first steps to working through your system of denial is to recognize it for what it is.

Following are a few facts about Denial. I am taking this information from the Skills for Life Workbook by Dr. Ranae Johnson, the founder of Rapid Eye Technology (RET.)

Facts About Denial:
1 Denial impairs judgement.
2 Denial distorts the truth.
3 Denial is a characteristic of disease.
4 Denial grows in strength as the disease progresses.
5 Denial cannot be overcome until you face what's not working.

Denial says:
1 "I do not have a problem."
2 "Everyone behaves the way I do."
3 "Things will get better tomorrow or next year."

Denial is a defense mechanism that shows up in many ways and keeps you from seeing the truth. Some ways in which people use denial to protect themselves are:

Rationalizing: "I yell and lash out because I am under a lot of pressure."

Silence: "I can stare her down before she says something she is sorry about."

Blaming: "My problems are because I am stuck in a dead end job with a jerk of a boss."

Intellectualizing: "Two ounces of alcohol a day is recommended by health experts."

Threatening: "I'd like to see you try to make me stop."

Minimizing: "I only get high on special occasions."

Switching: "You always seem to be in a bad mood, what is bothering you."

Hiding: "If I hang low for a week, no one will give me static about last night."

Generalizing: "We all have a bad habit or two."

Projecting: "John really has a problem with anger. I'm glad I'm not like him."

Agreeing: "Yes, I think you are right. I should cut down on my compulsive spending."

Joking: "If you think this is bad, you should see me when I really get going."

Denial plays roles of both good and bad. It can protect you from pain of truth until you are ready to face it. Or it can keep you from seeing how much pain an issue is causing people around you.

Laurie and I had completely different reactions to our EMCS denial sessions. She took what we learned in class, coupled it with a skill she'd just picked up, and created an amazing healing technique she's been using for pets and people with dramatic positive results. I spent two weeks totally off my rocker while I adjusted to the shift in my energy. Some of us just don't let go of our "stuff" as easily as others, but sooner or later, we end up at the same place...functioning much better...with fewer "reasons" to stay stuck.

RET is a method of stress relief that simulates the body's natural stress release mechanism: REM sleep. It is an educational model which gives knowledge for ways you can create the life you truly want. You can download the complete Skills for Life workbook at www.rapideyetechnology.com. The download is free:)

EMCS is a method of energy medicine developed by Dr. Gary Cone. It specifically targets the discordant energy of an issue and diffuses it, so that the issue no longer exists. www.garycone.com.

Lessons in Faith

One of the most challenging things for me has been to trust. I’m not talking about trusting people. I am pretty good at knowing which people I can trust, and have been blessed in my life with good relationships with honorable people. The trust issue for me has been with trusting myself. The trust issue for me has been trusting God.

For almost a year now, I have been operating a booth at Spirit Fairs in Oklahoma City and Tulsa. Saturday morning at 5:30, I headed out to Tulsa Spirit Fair with my friend, Laurie. She’s often my road companion. We like to do the same things, and last weekend she was attending a workshop to learn animal communication, and was meeting another friend at the hotel where the fair was being held. My time plan was to arrive there at 8:30 so that she could make her class at 9:00.

One of the many features my car has is a low tire pressure warning light. Not only does a light come on, it flashes a message, and I saw that message for the first time at 6:00 Saturday morning about 40 miles from home. We stopped and put air in all my tires because I was not sure which one needed it, but I certainly could not ignore the yellow exclamation point that lit up on my dash for another two and a half hours. I asked my angels to help me arrive at my destination safely.

Another pretty cool feature my car has is a traffic incident detection system. If there is an accident or traffic congestion ahead, it will send a message asking if I want an alternate route. The last time I ignored one of those messages I was in stopped traffic on the turnpike for an hour and a half. I do not ignore those messages anymore. I opted for an alternate route to the hotel.

Do you see how I am learning from my experiences?

We arrived at the hotel…late, but not to worry. The people I hang out with trust. I had plenty of time to set up my booth so I sat and visited for 30 minutes before I even began to unload my car.

I unloaded the really big stuff first from the back. Then, when I went to the driver’s side back door to start to unload some of the smaller items, I saw it: a flat, a problem, and unbeknownst to me at the time, an opportunity to learn.

I immediately thanked my angels again for getting me there safe and sound by an easier route.

I love the fair. People there totally get the golden rule. The first thing I did was ask a young man, Ben, to help me. He changed the flat and put the donut tire on, took my car to get the flat fixed. I was feeling pretty good until he came back to tell me the hole was in the side-wall and could not be fixed: a bigger problem, a greater opportunity to learn.

You’d think in a city the size of Tulsa, finding a tire to fit my car would easy. Nope, plus my tires are expensive. Ben and I were not having very good luck, and by the time I really got engaged in working on my own problem, the dealerships and new tire shops closed. About 4:00 that afternoon, I was facing having to spend at least another day in Tulsa to get a tire.

I called my husband, and told him all my problems. Close to tears, I asked my angels to help me. Phone book in hand, I sat down and told Destiny, a friend, that I’d probably be there until Tuesday waiting to get a tire, and if I had to buy two, it’d cost over $700.00.

Destiny looked at me and said “What? Don’t give up! I’d be calling every tire place in that phone book. What about a used tire? For $60 you can have a used tire.”

It had never occurred to me to look for a used tire.

The first used tire shop I called, B&H Tire, had my size tire, in fact, he had 6 of them, and he quoted me the price of $60.00, and he would wait on me to get there.

I walked out of the hotel, found my car, programmed the address of the tire shop into my navigation system, and headed out. The tire shop was 2.5 miles from the hotel. The tire man told me he had my exact size and brand of tire. He changed out the tire, put it on my car. Informed me the tire wasn’t as good as he thought, but assured me it would get me back home. He lowered the price to $40. I paid him $60 anyway...he was solving my problems.

40 minutes from my phone call to B&H Tire, I was back at the hotel with my flat fixed. Problems solved.

And then it occurred to me. I had angels all around me. They got me to the fair safe and sound by an alternate route that proved to be much easier to navigate. They led me to people who could help me put on my spare and find out my all my problems. Then, they set in motion to assist me to get a tire on my vehicle that I could drive home on. They orchestrated all the events which led me to solve my problems.

As the enormity of what had occurred came into my awareness, I felt more peace than I can remember feeling in a very long time. I’d been presented with an opportunity to learn. At an emotional moment I’d asked my angels for help, then, I did something I rarely do. I surrendered. I stopped trying to fix my own problem. I got out of the way and let them. In doing so, I received a valuable lesson. I received a lesson in faith.

Your Love Matters

Do you ever consider your thoughts? Thoughts are energy, and unlike the energies of light or sound, thought energy does not diminish with distance. Thoughts sent across the world are just as powerful as thoughts sent across a room. A simple act of kindness we can perform every day that takes only seconds is to send loving thoughts to another person.

When we think of another, we send energy directly to them, like shooting an arrow that always hits is mark. While a person may not be aware you're thinking of them, they nonetheless receive the benefit of your love.

It's not just other people who benefit from loving thoughts. You can send compassion and healing to animals, plants, the natural environment, situations, or relationships. If you are going into a situation that has potential to be unpleasant or dangerous, send love ahead to diffuse negativity.

Practice sending loving thoughts every single day, and you will find that you receive the greatest benefit from this practice. There is a law of the universe called Cause and Effect that states whatever you send out returns to you multiplied. Your love matters. Your love makes a difference, and the love you send out always returns to you in countless ways.

Every person has the ability to heal with their hands; it is an innate human ability. Healing Touch is but one of many methods of hands-on healing. I am trained in a method called Quantum Touch, and also in a Japanese method called Reiki. For some people, there is no training necessary, the ability to heal with their hands is with them as a gift.

I have had people ask me if this is a "gift" then how is it you can learn it. Well...there are people who can play a musical instrument by ear, with no lessons. We say they have a gift. Then there are people who study and practice for years to play, and we also say they have a gift. Anyone can learn to heal with their hands, just as anyone can learn to play an instrument. I've also come into contact with people who are a little afraid of this kind of work because of the spiritual nature of it. Well...This is how I answer that...Jesus healed with his hands. This ability was what made him well-know in his time. He also said that anything he could do, we could do...and more. I believe that pretty much says it all. ~~Blessings, Tonjia